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Once you have done your job of showing you are THE MAN, and a woman shows you that she WANTS to talk to you, LET HER. You've earned it. Otherwise she will wonder why the hell you started talking to her in the first place, since she will feel like you are JUST teasing her and nothing else- i.e. robbing HER of all the fun. She ENJOYS talking to you now, she wants to communicate that, so let her.
BEING THE MAN does not mean to be CRUEL. It's about balance. And if by chance she suddenly starts to test you in middle of the conversation, relax. It's usually just a test, so all you have to do is just show that you don't put up with b.s. and act like are about to leave. If she likes you, she will get you to stay. And she'll value you even more because she WORKED to get your approval. |
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My over all attitude is coming along, compared to how it use to be ( a recovering nice guy). However there are still a few things I'm having trouble with. The teasing and cockyness seems to be getting women's attention extremely well, but there are a lot of times where that's all I really say to them. I almost feel like I'm doing it too much. There has got to be some happy medium out there that I'm just not getting, or is this a normal feeling?
It also seems that this problem goes hand in hand with getting her emotionally involved (something that's a bigger problem than teasing too much, but I think are connected somehow). I haven't ever been able to get women to emotionally connect with me or with what I'm saying. |
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For every man who truly struggles to attract women, and then eventually finds success in this area of his life, there is a DEFINING MOMENT: Whether it stems from unbearable loneliness, rage, jealousy, or a combination of these emotions, there comes a threshold, a point where something just clicks inside the mind and says NO MORE. NO MORE pain, no more loneliness, no more jealousy, no more mockery.
And sometimes, even THIS massive commitment is NOT enough, if he cannot find the KNOWLEDGE necessary for success. Success with women requires COMMITMENT PLUS KNOWLEDGE. |
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