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Blind Date
If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.

And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date...

Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general...

...And wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are ANNOYING AS HELL.

The reality is that single women have an entire laundry list of traits, qualities, and characteristics that they HATE in single guys.

Did you know this?
In order to understand women, you must understand that they are bombarded non-stop by the following 3 ideas from the time they hit puberty.

MESSAGE ONE: Your looks are the only thing that really counts.

MESSAGE TWO: Don’t be a “slut”.

MESSAGE THREE: Be “independent”.

The effect of these messages has been to create total sexual CHAOS between men and women. I’ll explain the effect of each message:

MESSAGE ONE:
“YOUR LOOKS ARE THE ONLY THING THAT REALLY COUNTS.”
From the time a girl hits puberty, if she is attractive, she has guys hitting on her in subtle and not-so-subtle ways, ALL THE TIME. Guys are kissing up to her, willing to help her with favors, buy her things, etc. And even women want to be around her, since she is so popular.
Lots of guys use Internet flirting or cybersex as a sort of interactive girly magazine, and frankly, they leave their emotions at the bathroom door. The problem is that to women, both the woman in their lives and the woman on the other end of the DSL, the interaction is real. A cyber-relationship holds promise, and to a wife or girlfriend that promise feels like a very real threat.
Well, actually, it DOES have some meaning to her- it means to her, in her mind, that he is a SUB-STANDARD, “TYPICAL MALE”. Guys just can't understand this since it's SO FAR AWAY from the reality that GUYS experience.

In other words, if a GUY got a compliment from a woman who was attractive, he'd LOVE it, he'd APPRECIATE IT, most guys are not spoiled this way. Most guys don't grow up in this culture getting compliments from women. Guys don't even EXPECT them, since as men we have this crazy belief that it's just not the way it's supposed to be, but that somehow KISSING UP TO WOMEN IS JUST *NATURAL*!

This is HOGWASH that women would just LOVE for you to BELIEVE! Trust me, I have been to other cultures, where the way women treat men is AWESOME!

Signs your date is going well:
Watch to see if you find your date is mirroring your gestures, a strong indicator that the date is on-track. Another positive signal is if your date is leaning towards you as you dating. Other good signs to watch for including nodding and tilting the head to the side as you are speaking, an indicator your date is interested in what you have to say.
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