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hi i was out the other weekend to a new bar that a friend of mine dj's at thought something different. i meet this girl i know from work and we were really hitting it off. about mid night or so a girl that had broke up with me comes in with a bounch of her friends. she acts all jealous of this other girl. keeps asking me who is this, what are you doing and so on. so i brush her off a little and don't really say much.
then at the end of the night she wants to know what i'm doing if i'm going somewhere else. i didn't really give her an answer. then she tells her ride to go, and asks me if i could give her a ride to go somewhere else , and i didn't have any entensions of leaving because i has hitting it off really well with this other girl. so being the nice guy i am i gave her a ride. do you think i have any chance with the other girl even though i let her hanging, and left with my ex instead. |
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After all, she doesn't HAVE to try anymore, since you've indicated with your constant smiling that she ALREADY HAS you. Instead of giving a woman ALL THE POWER in the interaction, I recommend you HOLD ON to some of it yourself, and let a woman EARN the rest.
For example, who says you have to FACE A WOMAN COMPLETELY when you talk to her? Even though usually, you SHOULD look at her, and you should NOT have darting eyes, the principle of holding on to your power can even bend this rule if you understand how it works. But certainly, you DON'T HAVE TO ACTUALLY FACE HER WITH THE REST OF YOUR BODY. At a recent workshop, on of my students went up to a girl at the mall, right by the sign that shows you where everything in the mall is...he started speaking to her while staring at the sign---- Guess what? |
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Is it romantic Armageddon, or uncomfortable shoes? Where the toes point, the heart follows. According to body language expert Patti Wood, MA, CSP, you should, *look at your sweetie's feet when you are out with other people.* She says, *if they are pointed at you, great.* If they're pointed at someone else, your partner may be looking to walk.
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| Smiling is actually good for you too. When you smile your body chemistry changes and makes you feel happy. This warm and fuzzy feeling creates an aura which single women can pick up on and make them smile back at you and that's exactly what you want to do. Make eye contact and smile at each other. | ||