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It's important to realize that in order to convey something to a woman, you must understand how WOMEN interpret things, even if the way they interpret things is COMPLETELY WRONG!
#1. NOT BEING DESPERATE AT ALL First of all, anything that indicates EFFORT to dating to her, on your part, is a signal to a woman that you are desperate. Notice I said EFFORT, not COURAGE. Let me give you examples of indicating too much effort: You see a woman in a mall, walking, and she is FAR away from you. If you want to approach her, do not let her see that you are running half way across the mall to approach her! Instead, you should set it up so that you walk ahead of her without her noticing that you have noticed HER, then casually slow down, turn a bit as if you are looking at something, and VOILA- she just *happens* to walk right toward you. NOW you can do your thing- after all, she was right in front of you, right- it was NO BIG DEAL...lol |
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| It doesn’t matter how you got to be single in your mid-thirties. What does matter, however, is that you have certain priorities in order so that you can protect yourself and those you date from getting hurt. There are too many reasons to list on why you’re on the market at this stage in your life, but you should be clear on your goals, both long and short-term. You don’t want to be led on or trapped into something you didn’t want in the first place. |
I can remember when I thought that the proper way to act on a date was to talk about socially acceptable topics, act sterile and quiet, and generally try to make sure that she got whatever she wanted.
Oh, was this a huge mistake. Generally speaking, women are BORED TO DEATH BY THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR. When you meet a girl for a cup of tea or go out to dinner, it's time to have FUN, not to be her personal ass kisser! Playing it safe and kissing up to her is a sure way to get either an expensive relationship or a woman who won't call you back. TALKING ABOUT BORING THINGS Don't talk about your job and your family! BORING! Guys who are trying to convince women that they're *nice* talk about their families (If you really want to be a loser, carry pictures around with you and show them off.). Talking about families is *courtship* behavior, and it will put her into the old *this guy is boring* frame of mind. Unless you're related to John F. Kennedy or someone even more interesting, keep the family history to yourself! BEING BORING |
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DO NOT GIVE UP
Getting responses from the right person can be hard, don't give up. Reword your ad, try a new site, stay friendly. If you set a time limit on yourself, your pessimism will show through. Don't rush into anything! |
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