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So we have to learn to dating its (her) language or we're all going to get nowhere, okay? Hey, women don't mind working hard to dating to us in OUR illogical language- i.e. DOING THEIR BEST TO LOOK LIKE GORGEOUS BABES! So let's do our part and communicate our best too.

Describing the entire language here is beyond the scope of this newsletter, but allow me to give a picture of it here. Since women are designed to be attracted to SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE, they will be observing your behavior to see if it's CONGRUENT and CONSISTENT with that of a man who TRULY HAS SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE.

So let's say for example, guy ONE goes to a busy club and at first just watches for 15 minutes and does not interact with anyone and basically looks pretty serious. And then he decides to go out on the dance floor and aggressively bumps and grinds with a few girls he doesn't know.

He asks one of them some question like if they always come there. They nod and go away and before he knows it, they are talking to some other guy. Then he goes back to watching.
 
According to Body Language Expert Patti Wood, you shouldn't fold your arms or chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. Wood says, chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.

There's more. Women are biologically attracted to more dominant men, so stand tall with your shoulders back. Feel free to take up some space. Wood says appearing more dominant effectively draws female attention. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and your toes pointing outward.
TRY BEFORE YOU BUY
Any personals site worthwhile will be happy to prove it to you. Browse the ads, place your own ad, search for the real type of person that you want in your life. When you have found enough people that you are interested in meeting, join the club. Don't limit yourself to one club. You don't shop in only one store, don't limit your choices here either. Know that eventually you'll have to pay for a singles service, but don't base your choice on price alone, find a service that has plenty of members that you'd like to trade messages with and jump in!

I’ve been wondering what your opinion is of “speed dating” or “speed matching.”

I’ve been to three such events sponsored by an online dating service (Match.com). You get a mere four minutes with each woman. I find lots of women I’m attracted to at these functions, perhaps up to a quarter or a third of the total attendees. (Incidentally, the average age is 40-plus; I’m 55.)

While I said YES on my ballot to lots of them, very few of the women I was attracted to selected me on their ballot. I’m no James Brolin, but I’m not bad-looking either. I lead an active life, own my own business, I’m educated, and blah blah blah.

At the latest event, which was just last Sunday, there were 18 women. I said YES on my ballot to seven of them, and MAYBE to four. NONE of the women at the top of my list selected me. I got a lousy ONE match – one of my MAYBES -- out of 18 candidates.

And as always, the least physically attractive women (who I did not select) seem to select me. The dating service’s method tells me who picked me, even if I didn’t pick them. (Now, you may say it’s important to look beyond the physical and I really try to do that, but I don’t care how nice and sweet and giving they are, if I’m not physically attracted to them, it isn’t going to work for me.)

This high level of rejection is starting to get to me, Doc. I think I’m a great catch for a woman. What the heck am I doing wrong in a mere four minutes that is resulting in low or no interest whatsoever?

I’m a great fan of yours and look forward to getting “The System,” which I recently ordered.
Steve - who keeps striking out on fastballs

Another great date place is a theme park. If you live near one of the larger ones, like Disneyland, it can be expensive. Call and ask about local resident discounts, and if you have friends that work there ask if they can get you a passes at a reduced rate. Don’t overlook the smaller carnivals and festivals in your area. It can be significantly less expensive and equally entertaining. These sort of places have a little of everything, so you should be able to find something the two of you can enjoy. This is also a great choice for that first date with his or her children.