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is not
in jail,
on probation,
has a court date pending,

isn't a
misogynist,
racist,
classist,
elitist,
lawyer,
politician,
member of the military,
policeman (Malice Green, Rodney King),
bible boy, or
a pompous ass.

Call me!!

What you have to be is HONEST, HONEST, HONEST!!! If you're out there, if you exist, call me. Please don't make me give up on men.
So what happens is the jerk who is a total loser and never worked a day in his life, and who has no time for his girlfriend because he is too busy chasing other girls, has her going crazy for him because by simply being HARD TO GET, he accidentally activated the SWITCH in her head that makes her feel *THIS IS A SEXUALLY DESIRABLE GUY!*

See? It's NOT logical, but you can understand how it could have made sense, had the REASON for being hard to get been different.

 
For example, a guy thinks, *Hey, this woman is sexy. If I go up to her and really treat her special, and compliment her, she'll appreciate it and maybe she'll go out with me. After all, she can choose ANY guy she wants, doesn't she want the NICEST guy, the guy who treats her BEST?*

Or how about this:

You get into arguments with your girlfriend. Even though she is just as much to blame for the arguments as you, she blames you completely. You love her, so you decide to give in always in order to prevent making her upset so she will still love you. After all, you don't want to upset her and push her into the arms of another man. You decide to be the *bigger person*, you call her back, say you are sorry and that you love her and that you just want her to be happy.


Sex itself is actually none of these things, and in all the above cases, sex has taken control over the individual instead of vice versa.

The bottom line though is that SEX ITSELF is a POWERFUL RAW EMOTION, but how it gets harnessed is up to the individual. Think of absolute value, it can go negative or positive, but the intensity of the absolute value remains unchanged.

Now, I believe that the emotion of sex is so powerful, that it can be experienced at TRILLIONS of different levels besides sex itself that are JUST AS POWERFUL as the raw act. This is why a certain LOOK on someone’s face can be EXTREMELY POWERFUL. This is why a movie like TITANIC can break every record ever made. This is why guys (and plenty of women) love movies like TERMINATOR where the macho guy who isn’t too emotional otherwise comes across time to save this woman, and why women (and plenty of guys) love movies like TITANIC.

In both cases, the stories about more than bullets and sinking ships. Movies that are just about bullets and sinking ships go straight to video and nobody talks about them. At the very HEART of these movies is a powerful, innovative, subtle expression of SEX that works on a soul-to-soul level between audience and film. The film CREATES emotions, and it's not even REAL, it's just plastic running on a projector.

It is YOUR job to work on an EQUALLY powerful level with the woman or women in YOUR life. To use the emotion of sex in a subtle, yet powerful way. Now, what I am sharing with you is very powerful stuff, and I don’t believe in using these powers to hurt women. I believe in using these powers to enhance your connection with the woman or women you care about.